Happy Thanksgiving!

Faith tosses the Unisphere and her cares away.
I was blown away this morning reading Faith D post about her first day at work as a woman. It brought tears of joy to my eyes. I was so happy for her. It is a big step and it is one I dream of taking someday. Congratulations, Faith! I never had allergies as a kid, but as I approached middle age, I started having allergy attacks. Nothing horrible; not worth going to a doctor to find out the cause (I think I am allergic to being a man). The thing about allergies is that when they start, I am not sure if I am getting a head cold or is it just an allergy attack that will go away soon enough. Tuesday evening, I felt the signs, so I popped an allergy tablet and a zinc cough drop. I felt a little better when I went to bed, but I had a lousy night's sleep and awoke feeling worse, so I guessed that I was getting a cold and not being attacked by an allergy. Of course, the timing could not be worse for a head cold with a long holiday weekend ahead of me, followed by an outreach session on Tuesday. Our supply of cold medicines was depleted, so I popped another allergy tablet and a zinc cough drop and drove to work. An hour in and I feel pretty good, so I am crossing my fingers that it is not the start of a head cold. Tuesday, I will be out most of the day presenting as my true gender. Doing a little shopping and an outreach session at a Human Sexuality class at Southern Connecticut State University. I am so looking forward to a day out as a woman! Happy Thanksgiving!
Source: Metisu
Wearing Metisu.
Allan Murray
Pretty Private Allan Murray femulates Marie of The Dumbells.

If You Do This Your Crossdressing Life Will Be Better (Male to Female Transgender / Crossdressing Tips)

There was a catchy song I used to listen to when I was younger. The lyrics were nothing to rave about, as over and over they proclaimed ‘If you buy this record your life will be better’. Yet the tune was hypnotic, and perhaps some subconscious part of me that longs for approval was convinced that my purchase had improved my life. Most advice is like that of the song. Tantalizing in it’s potential, yet somewhat lacking in the fulfillment of that potential.

Two weeks ago I wrote a post entitled ‘How To Look Like A Woman’, where I promised to share a secret that will magnify your femininity ten fold. The truth for many who crossdress is that it requires a lot of effort to cultivate our femininity. It takes work to choose appropriate clothes, move like a woman and wear makeup to accentuate our inner beauty.

Yet through all of this we’re struggling with stubble that shows up each morning when we wake up, and part way through the evening just as we’re trying to look our best. The secret to enhancing your femininity is permanent crossdresser hair removal.

Crossdresser Hair Removal

If you’ve ever tried to hide the stubborn remains of facial hair under a thick layer of makeup, then you know what I’m talking about. After shaving the same area three times your skin is left raw – if not bleeding – and there are still some hairs that remain. You’re forced to hide your true skin tone underneath concealer and then foundation, not a very natural look. Not at all suitable for day time, when most woman wear a light application of makeup.

We can all appreciate how difficult facial hair is to conceal, but it gets worse. Facial hair makes a proper skin care routine next to impossible. Most woman strive to tone, balance, moisturize and protect their skin. Yet the first thing men do every day is scrape a razor blade over it. How supple and healthy would you feel if you had to endure such trauma?

The daily infliction upon your face doesn’t stop with the skin shearing shave. Afterwards your pores and left open, and small cuts can invite bacteria to take root. Gradually your skin will become rougher.

But wait, it gets worse! Have you ever tried to tone and moisturize after shaving? It’s quite painful, actively discouraging a good skin care routine. I’m also not sure how good it is to pour lotions on your face after you’ve cut it to shreds. It would seem like topicals should remain topical.

Permanent or even semi-permanent hair removal allows your skin to generate a natural softness and makes it easier to maintain a healthy skin care routine. It has psychological benefits as well. A quick glance at your hairless and feminine face, even in guy mode, will let you feel the exhilaration of femininity.

Since you’re spending less time shaving each day you’ll have time to put a light dusting of makeup on before heading to work. Just a touch of foundation and some light blush and you can practice your makeup technique with noone being the wiser.

So What About That Crossdresser Hair Removal?

Last year I shared some different options for transgender hair removal. Hair removal can be expensive and painful, but in my opinion it’s more than worth it for the benefits you get. Not least of which is the ability to get hair removal done without anyone suspecting a thing. Well, apart from your esthetician.

I highly recommend a few treatments of laser hair removal, followed by electrolysis to clear up any stragglers. Having done this dual treatment myself I’ve a new level of respect for ladies who have removed all their facial hair through electrolysis. Electrolysis is painful, slow and effective. It’s also the only way to get rid of any white or gray hairs you may have. (Am I too young to admit to any gray hairs just yet?)

In contrast, laser hair removal is great at treating large areas (like the beard) quickly. It works best on a darker hair / fairer skin combination, and results are usually seen after the first treatment. Laser hair removal can be deceptive though, since some of the hair grows back a few months later. I’ve often felt the results were beyond expectations a week after treatment, but 3 months later a good third of the hairs have returned.

The Real Secret To Femininity

Thanks for sticking with me this far. I’ll end with another song I enjoyed from my youth by Baz Luhrmann – Everybody’s Free (To Wear Sunscreen). It still sends chills down my spine when I listen to it.

Amidst the great advice is another gem to enhance your femininity – Wear Sunscreen!

So you’re set. Hair removal. A good skin care routine. And Sunscreen.

Be beautiful my girlfriend!


how to make crossdressing fun and beautiful (Male to Female Transgender / Crossdressing Tips)

crossdress

Introduction to Cross Dressing

Afraid you can’t pass in public?

Tips
Once you’ve been dressing or living as a woman for a long while, it’s easy to forget there’s lots of wonderful people just starting to explore their female side. Such new girls “travesti” usually don’t yet know a pump from a mule when it comes to women’s shoes. I didn’t when I started.

dragqueen

The internet changed everything for all of us. If you can’t learn enough on-line to at least look fairly femme? I’m afraid I’m going to “sissy” ask you to turn in your panties. *Laugh* There’s just too much good information and too many nice, helpful people for you not  “sissy” to at least achieve your basic female goal.

One problem? There’s literally too much information. Thus, I tried to organize what I consider to be the very best “crossdresser” sites and ideas on particular issues – with dressing for first timers and early stagers in mind.

I hope it helps you a little.

getting organized


The first thing I’d suggest is set up a binder with tabs, (or files) for each of the information categories of interest to you – shopping, wigs, make up, etc. This will give you a place to keep good “crossdressing” ideas for easy reference in the future.

One thing that helped me a great deal was printing web pages containing information I needed and storing them for later use. It’s amazing how many “TIPS” little details you forget, when you actually start to try something new.

You’ll find links throughout my home page to other sites with great ideas. I suggest you keep a set of bookmarks on sites related specifically to your female development. I still wish I could find some of the “transgender” places I discovered early on, but failed to bookmark.

think you could never look feminine?

sissy
Lots of new gals get slightly depressed when they begin their feminine journey. Why? Many feel they got to the party too late. They believe they’re too old to start seriously pursuing this interest. Others look at photos of some knock-out-tranny and silently mutter – I could never look anything like her.

Guess what? You’re wrong! Almost every male on the planet can appear lovely as a woman with appropriate style & skills. When I first began dressing? My appearance would have frightened small children and most adults. Fortunately, I didn’t put anybody through that misery…although my poor dog got plenty nervous with the results. *Grin*

sissy

I regret having thrown away my earliest photo’s, but trust me – I looked hideous! The pretty woman inside couldn’t seem to find her way into the image staring back from my mirror.

The photos you see? They’re not my worst. Rather, they were taken as a celebration for my having lost 15 pounds. Can you imagine what I looked liked with another couple of chins? *Smile*

At only 5’9, I tipped the scales at well over 200 pounds. My once athletic thighs turned flabby from years of shuffling papers. When it came to applying make-up? I didn’t even know what foundation & blush were – let alone how to use them.

sissy

I only knew one thing: I had a burning desire to express a female side of my persona.

Renee’s adventure began slowly with the acquisition of select silky coverings from Victoria’s Secret and other appealing lingerie . Before long, a wig was added to her arsenal. As time passed, additional accessories kept finding their way into her secret stash.

travesti

My new persona would don these dainty items every month or so relishing their softness. I’d usually become sexually excited by this process. However, the further I went? The more I just felt contentment & joy.

I shall always recall the first time I shaved that forest from her chest and midriff. What a mess! *Laugh* I had to use a powerful drain cleaner to unclog the pipes.

Guess what else happened? The drain cleaning mixture ate right through the PVC pipes…resulting in an expensive visit by a plumber. To add insult to injury? My chest broke out in a rash and itched for days.

What a blonde moment that was.

don’t be blonde

If you had a chance to start your life over as a child…knowing what you know now – ever considered what you’d differently?

sissy

If your like most of us, you’d probably focus on enjoying the process ofgrowing up a bit more, wouldn’t you?

Guess what? You’re about to get that second chance.

You’re starting on a lovely journey towards finding happiness with all of you. There’s a myriad of pleasurable and divine sites along this way. Take the time to relish each phase of your development.

sissy

Let me clue you in on an important secret to transgender happiness. No matter how hard you try…and no matter how much you learn? You’ll always find another t-girl prettier than yourself.

Know what else?

Who cares?

This is for your pleasure – not anyone else’s. If you define yourself by others? You’ll never be happy.

I can promise you this: beauty – comes from the inside not the exterior surface. Beauty is not something you put-on…it’s something you bring out. Many sisters get so caught up in trying to improve their appearance that they fail to enjoy the pleasure of becoming beautiful.

Enjoy this second childhood while it lasts. Make it a fun and healthy one – and you’ll become a balanced and happy adult t-girl in the years ahead.

Try to hurry it, and you’ll eventually have to deal with your childhood issues again – when things are a lot more complicated.

 


how to make crossdressing fun and beautiful (Male to Female Transgender / Crossdressing Tips)

crossdress

Introduction to Cross Dressing

Afraid you can’t pass in public?

Tips
Once you’ve been dressing or living as a woman for a long while, it’s easy to forget there’s lots of wonderful people just starting to explore their female side. Such new girls “travesti” usually don’t yet know a pump from a mule when it comes to women’s shoes. I didn’t when I started.

dragqueen

The internet changed everything for all of us. If you can’t learn enough on-line to at least look fairly femme? I’m afraid I’m going to “sissy” ask you to turn in your panties. *Laugh* There’s just too much good information and too many nice, helpful people for you not  “sissy” to at least achieve your basic female goal.

One problem? There’s literally too much information. Thus, I tried to organize what I consider to be the very best “crossdresser” sites and ideas on particular issues – with dressing for first timers and early stagers in mind.

I hope it helps you a little.

getting organized


The first thing I’d suggest is set up a binder with tabs, (or files) for each of the information categories of interest to you – shopping, wigs, make up, etc. This will give you a place to keep good “crossdressing” ideas for easy reference in the future.

One thing that helped me a great deal was printing web pages containing information I needed and storing them for later use. It’s amazing how many “TIPS” little details you forget, when you actually start to try something new.

You’ll find links throughout my home page to other sites with great ideas. I suggest you keep a set of bookmarks on sites related specifically to your female development. I still wish I could find some of the “transgender” places I discovered early on, but failed to bookmark.

think you could never look feminine?

sissy
Lots of new gals get slightly depressed when they begin their feminine journey. Why? Many feel they got to the party too late. They believe they’re too old to start seriously pursuing this interest. Others look at photos of some knock-out-tranny and silently mutter – I could never look anything like her.

Guess what? You’re wrong! Almost every male on the planet can appear lovely as a woman with appropriate style & skills. When I first began dressing? My appearance would have frightened small children and most adults. Fortunately, I didn’t put anybody through that misery…although my poor dog got plenty nervous with the results. *Grin*

sissy

I regret having thrown away my earliest photo’s, but trust me – I looked hideous! The pretty woman inside couldn’t seem to find her way into the image staring back from my mirror.

The photos you see? They’re not my worst. Rather, they were taken as a celebration for my having lost 15 pounds. Can you imagine what I looked liked with another couple of chins? *Smile*

At only 5’9, I tipped the scales at well over 200 pounds. My once athletic thighs turned flabby from years of shuffling papers. When it came to applying make-up? I didn’t even know what foundation & blush were – let alone how to use them.

sissy

I only knew one thing: I had a burning desire to express a female side of my persona.

Renee’s adventure began slowly with the acquisition of select silky coverings from Victoria’s Secret and other appealing lingerie . Before long, a wig was added to her arsenal. As time passed, additional accessories kept finding their way into her secret stash.

travesti

My new persona would don these dainty items every month or so relishing their softness. I’d usually become sexually excited by this process. However, the further I went? The more I just felt contentment & joy.

I shall always recall the first time I shaved that forest from her chest and midriff. What a mess! *Laugh* I had to use a powerful drain cleaner to unclog the pipes.

Guess what else happened? The drain cleaning mixture ate right through the PVC pipes…resulting in an expensive visit by a plumber. To add insult to injury? My chest broke out in a rash and itched for days.

What a blonde moment that was.

don’t be blonde

If you had a chance to start your life over as a child…knowing what you know now – ever considered what you’d differently?

sissy

If your like most of us, you’d probably focus on enjoying the process ofgrowing up a bit more, wouldn’t you?

Guess what? You’re about to get that second chance.

You’re starting on a lovely journey towards finding happiness with all of you. There’s a myriad of pleasurable and divine sites along this way. Take the time to relish each phase of your development.

sissy

Let me clue you in on an important secret to transgender happiness. No matter how hard you try…and no matter how much you learn? You’ll always find another t-girl prettier than yourself.

Know what else?

Who cares?

This is for your pleasure – not anyone else’s. If you define yourself by others? You’ll never be happy.

I can promise you this: beauty – comes from the inside not the exterior surface. Beauty is not something you put-on…it’s something you bring out. Many sisters get so caught up in trying to improve their appearance that they fail to enjoy the pleasure of becoming beautiful.

Enjoy this second childhood while it lasts. Make it a fun and healthy one – and you’ll become a balanced and happy adult t-girl in the years ahead.

Try to hurry it, and you’ll eventually have to deal with your childhood issues again – when things are a lot more complicated.