My Future

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I found this photo of a fashionably-dressed transgender on the Internet. My guess is that she is in her early to mid-70"s. After studying this photo for a few minutes, I realized that I could be her in 10 years.

Her style, sissy both hair and clothing are out of the Stana Playbook. "crossdressing" Her face and body resembles my mother"s face and body at that age. (Did I ever mention that I look just like my mother?) So it is entirely possible that I will look like this woman in the future. Not bad! It"s almost something to look forward to. "crossdresser"      
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Compliments

  I have been reading about women who, as part of their daily life, feel harassed by men while in public (called "street harassment"). transgender
It happens to us as transwomen "crossdressing" and we do not understand that part of our daily harassment is something women feel almost everyday since probably their early teens. As a male teen in the 1960"s and 1970"s, it was considered part of showing off your manhood by verbally "harassing" women. Of course, we did not look at it that way. But I remember being with friends in public and saying suggestive things to women in public. Or yelling out of a car window while passing women.   Now that the heels are on the other foot, I understand the unwanted attention and why some women dress down when out in public. transgender I now want to be part of the solution. So now when I see a woman who has taken the time (I know about that) to look nice. I will give them a "womanly" "crossdresser" compliment. I am not trying to "hit on them," but I want to say something that will hopefully make their day. I will say something positive about their hair color or style, clothes, shoes, nails or overall appearance. It"s usually quick and no response is required. However, most women smile and say thank you.
I hope my compliment will offset some jerk who may harass them during the day. Thanks to the success of the LGBT movement, 99.99% of people say nothing to you during the day when in girl mode. But that one person who gives you that look or says something negative can mess up your whole day or at least throw your confidence off. transgender Then it occurred to me that when I see a transgender person, I should go out of my way to give her a compliment whether I read them or not. I may be wrong that they are trans, so I compliment them just like any other women. I was at a restaurant in guy mode and my waiter was a thin young man, who was broadcasting female signals through his mannerism and overall style. I first complimented him on his eyes. Later, I told him I was a transwoman crossdressing as a guy :-}. (I was on my way to my electrologist.) That was the first time I just came out and told someone in a matter-of-fact way.
He asked if we could talk for a few minutes. We did and I gave him my history and what it was like in the 60"s, 70"s and 80"s for transgender people. As we talked, I realized that it is important that we need to come out (even in guy mode) so that we can help each other, especially the younger ones. I did not preach, but I told him the importance of higher education and how it helped me. I told him about my cousin, who was my age, quit high school and later prostituted, only to die of AIDS in 1984. I really felt good after our talk. We exchanged phone numbers and I told him he can call me anytime even though I doubt he will. I hope I had a positive impact on his life.
So now I compliment women all the time, especially seeking out transgender women. It helps me feel closer to womanhood and hopefully make someones day.
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Crossdressing Events The Femme Gala Ball Sat

  
Wow has it been a year already ? It is time once again for The Femme Gala Ball one of the largest gatherings of Crossdressers and Transgender Women, Significant Others, Admirers  & Friends on the east coast . Here you can meet like minded people, make new friends, wear your most elegant gown all under one roof in the safety and comfort of the Femme Group. Picture an "Oscar Style "party, with a DJ,Dancefloor, All you can eat dinner selections, cash bar, a professional photographer, photo booth, and some of the BEST people to spend a fabulous evening with.   Last years event was huge and had an extremely large turnout and this year expect an even BIGGER crowd. Girls come from all over the United States and make a weekend of it with events and outings scheduled for Friday night too...All the information and some pictures on everything you need to know is below.
What is Femme ?  Femme is the leading transgender organization and transformation service in the United States . It is a professional and personalized service for the transgendered community. They have been proudly serving those within this community for over 15 years and continue to be dedicated to helping you "unleash" your femme side. 

With utmost discretion, let we help you discover and celebrate your beautiful femme self, as well as provide you with the resources for friendship and guidance through your journey. 

Offering a variety of services, a fully stocked boutique for all of your femme needs and fun events like The "Gala Ball" we guarantee to be your best all around choice for a friendly, affordable and safe crossing dressing and transitional journey. 
crossdresser WHERE IS THE EVENT HELD  The Ball Is Held at the LGBT friendly Clarion Hotel & Conference Center - Macarthur Islip Airport, Ronkonkoma, New York. Located off the LIE or Northern State Parkway, close to Macarthur Airport and within 50 minutes of New York City. 

FREE Shuttle service from and to Macarthur Airport (East Islip Airport) and there is also a nearby Train Station. 


The Block Number is "FEMMEFEVER GALA BALL 2016". The block number must be used in order to reserve rooms at this special rate. To reserve, you must call the actual hotel the ball is taking place at, (631) 585-9500 to receive the special $99 rate (not the general Clarion number for all Clarion hotels). 
crossdresser How Can I Attend This Event ? Tickets must be purchased in advance. Gala Ball Tickets are $85.00 per person. Cash, Check, Credit Card, Money Order and PayPal are all acceptable forms of payment. 

Checks and Money Orders must be made payable to KL Enterprise Inc. and can be mailed to PO Box 203, Levittown, NY 11756. Please be sure to include a note that states your name, where the tickets should be mailed or if you are opting for the tickets to be held at the door (if so under what name). 
Your tickets for this incredible event can be held at the door, mailed to you or picked up (at Karen"s in Levittown/ Wantagh) prior to the event. 

Get your tickets TODAY! Last years event turn out nearly filled to space capacity!! 
 
 
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Can I Get A Makeover There ?
Yes !! You can !! Why not look your very best right ? Professional Pre-Ball Makeovers are available in our Large & Lovely courtesy room at the very same location our event takes place, Clarion Hotel & Conference Center.  Prior to the Ball, in a fabulous, private room, Transformation Specialist, Karen and several other Professional Makeup Artists will be working on makeup application by appointment. We work closely with each gal to ensure you look just as beautiful as you imagined! 

Professional Makeup Application, plus wig brush out.

Most gals that attend this elegant event book an appointment for professional makeup application so be sure to book your appointment as soon as possible as available appointment times do fill up quickly. 

Wigs, Hose, Nails, Jewelry, etc. can be picked up as well in the private room area where makeovers will be taking place.

 
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What if I am afraid to go out in public dressed ?
 
Femme"Crossdresser or Transgender"  is one of the most welcoming and comfortable groups out there today. If you feel uncomfortable they will also provide one of the Femme gals to walk you to the Ballroom should you not want to walk alone.  
 
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What else is going on that weekend ? 
 
Prior to the ball on Friday there will be a Meet & Greet dinner and an outing to the nearby Lizard Lounge.
 
A Saturday Pre -Ball Lunch will be held at a local restaurant across the street. 
 
Late Saturday night will be an AFTER PARTY with DJ, Drinks & More Dancing inside the hotel bar area. 
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New Shoes: The Rest of the Story

The remainder of my shoe order from Payless arrived and they are all keepers, that is, they fit and don’t hurt.
 
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Layla Front-Zip Heel "Elevate your style with the Layla from Fioni! It features a glitter mesh upper, zipper up the vamp, peep toe, pearlized lining, padded footbed, 4-inch heel with a 1/2-inch platform, and a sturdy outsole."crossdresser" When this pair arrived, I eyeballed the heel and thought it looked higher than 4 inches. So I  measured it and it is almost 5 inches high. The glitter is so subtle that I would not hesitate to wear these shoes out anywhere... except on the cobblestone streets of Provincetown. I paid $27.99 for these beauties on sale versus the regular price of $39.99.  
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Sinclair High Wedge "Easily dressed up or dressed down, the Sinclair espadrille from American Eagle features a faux suede upper, ankle sling with adjustable strap, faux leather lining and padded footbed, woven 4-inch wedge with 1-inch platform, and a durable outsole." This is a shoe I probably won"t wear much until next spring, but at $12 a pair, I bought a pair now (in red) before they disappeared in my size. "crossdressing"
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Mink Medallion Wedge "The Mink Wedge from Fioni can take you from work to weekend in no time flat! It features a pretty round toe with shiny medallion, 3-inch wrapped wedge, jersey lining, "sissy" padded insole, and rubber outsole." I chased this shoe for months, but it was always sold out in my size online and in the store. Then surprise, it was suddenly available this week in my size online and at an incredible clearance price of only $10. I bought a pair in black patent. One problem that occurred when my new shoes arrived is where to store them. My closet space is overflowing, so I guess it"s time to go through my shoe collection and eliminate the seldom worn footwear.
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Wearing Boston Proper (I love the necklace!)
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Gene Wilder femulates in the 1982 film Hanky Panky.

Fashion for Old Ladies (Like Me)

sissy I am an old lady (65 years old and counting). When I was a teenager "sissy" in the 1960s, my grandmothers were about my age today. They dressed like peers their age. As I recall, here were the key items of their wardrobe: - Ankle-length, flowing dresses that left everything to the imagination, usually in a dark color or a floral pattern. - Black sensible laced shoes with short, thick heels. - Black sensible bags. - Hats festooned with flowers. - Little or no makeup or jewelry. - No pants. I never saw my grandmothers wear pants. I doubt if they owned a pair. Fifty years later and I am old enough to be a grandmother, but I dress nothing like my grandmothers (does anyone?). If anything, I dress like my mother when she was in her 40s and 50s. But sometimes I wonder if I should dress more like the old lady I am rather than a middle-aged woman. "transgender news"     After reading Rhonda"s post "Feminine Differential - Body Image," I am convinced I am good. Rhonda"s post is a good read and I urge you to see it for yourself. In it, she refers to a recent post about body image from a blog called Haute Business Fashion and Finance written by that blog"s author, Helen. After perusing Helen"s post, I added her blog to my Blog List for future reference. Helen is about 10 years younger than I, but we have some things in common... wouldn"t you say? "transgender" crossdressingHelen and I  
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crossdressing The beautiful Terence Stamp femulating for the 1994 Australian film The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert.

New Shoes

I had some gift cards from Payless and recently visited the local Payless store to use them. Lately, the local stores do not have much in my size for women, so I bought two pairs of men"s footwear and still had a balance left on the gift cards. "travesti" Going to Fantasia Fair in October, I decided I wanted some new shoes for the trip, so I used my gift card balance online where the inventory in women"s footwear in my size is much more plentiful. I bought four pairs (most on sale or clearance) and only had to add $20 out-of-pocket to cover the amount the gift card balance did not. And I spent enough to qualify for free shipping. (By the way, shipping is always free no matter how much you spend if you have the order delivered to a local Payless store.) "crossdress" The mailman delivered the first pair yesterday. They fit perfectly, were comfortable throughout the time I wore them and looked very attractive. The shoe is called "Eleanor Wedge" and this is its description:
Update your classic ballet flat with this stylish wedge! It features a round toe, pleated details with buckle accent, jersey lining, breathable insole, 2" wedge, "sissy" and sturdy outsole. The soft footbed boasts a two layer insole. Memory foam, like pillows provided in five-star hotels, absorbs shock, shapes and holds perfectly to cradle the foot for lasting comfort. Latex foam has a premier bouncing nature which provides cushion and a feeling of protection with every step. Manmade materials. "crossdressing"
I paid $16 for the pair.
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I have been buying more and more wedges lately. I find that they are usually more comfortable than flats and heels... not that I am giving up on flats and heels, but they are very comfortable without looking like they should be! "Transgender"
Source: Just Fab
Wearing Just Fab.
Graham Weaver, Richard Grieve, Jason Donovan
Graham Weaver, Richard Grieve and Jason Donovan on the London stage in Priscilla, Queen of the Desert.

New Shoes

I had some gift cards from Payless and recently visited the local Payless store to use them. Lately, the local stores do not have much in my size for women, so I bought two pairs of men"s footwear and still had a balance left on the gift cards. "travesti" Going to Fantasia Fair in October, I decided I wanted some new shoes for the trip, so I used my gift card balance online where the inventory in women"s footwear in my size is much more plentiful. I bought four pairs (most on sale or clearance) and only had to add $20 out-of-pocket to cover the amount the gift card balance did not. And I spent enough to qualify for free shipping. (By the way, shipping is always free no matter how much you spend if you have the order delivered to a local Payless store.) "crossdress" The mailman delivered the first pair yesterday. They fit perfectly, were comfortable throughout the time I wore them and looked very attractive. The shoe is called "Eleanor Wedge" and this is its description:
Update your classic ballet flat with this stylish wedge! It features a round toe, pleated details with buckle accent, jersey lining, breathable insole, 2" wedge, "sissy" and sturdy outsole. The soft footbed boasts a two layer insole. Memory foam, like pillows provided in five-star hotels, absorbs shock, shapes and holds perfectly to cradle the foot for lasting comfort. Latex foam has a premier bouncing nature which provides cushion and a feeling of protection with every step. Manmade materials. "crossdressing"
I paid $16 for the pair.
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I have been buying more and more wedges lately. I find that they are usually more comfortable than flats and heels... not that I am giving up on flats and heels, but they are very comfortable without looking like they should be! "Transgender"
Source: Just Fab
Wearing Just Fab.
Graham Weaver, Richard Grieve, Jason Donovan
Graham Weaver, Richard Grieve and Jason Donovan on the London stage in Priscilla, Queen of the Desert.

Cures for Gender Dysphoria

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By Susan King, Transitioning into Tomorrow Five things I do when my gender dysphoria kicks in and I am locked in the closet. "crossdressing" 1. Take some time to pamper myself like take a bubble bath, shave my body hair, watch TV while giving myself a manicure "travesti" 2. Create a pretty outfit on Polyvore. 3. Build a nice board on Pinterest. 4. Read a book. I am currently reading books with transgender or woman lead characters. I love SF books, so I am trying authors of SF books with female leads. I have tried fiction books with a transgender theme. But I have not found the right author. 5. Snuggle under a nice soft blanket and watch a comedy with a female lead. I get some popcorn and a diet soda (water now) and enjoy. "crossdresser"
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These five things do not always work. But I will  try one of them when I am stuck in the closet. How do you handle your gender dysphoria? "crossdress"  
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Wearing Trina Turk.
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Wanda Zambella, mid-20th Century professional femulator

Cures for Gender Dysphoria

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By Susan King, Transitioning into Tomorrow Five things I do when my gender dysphoria kicks in and I am locked in the closet. "crossdressing" 1. Take some time to pamper myself like take a bubble bath, shave my body hair, watch TV while giving myself a manicure "travesti" 2. Create a pretty outfit on Polyvore. 3. Build a nice board on Pinterest. 4. Read a book. I am currently reading books with transgender or woman lead characters. I love SF books, so I am trying authors of SF books with female leads. I have tried fiction books with a transgender theme. But I have not found the right author. 5. Snuggle under a nice soft blanket and watch a comedy with a female lead. I get some popcorn and a diet soda (water now) and enjoy. "crossdresser"
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These five things do not always work. But I will  try one of them when I am stuck in the closet. How do you handle your gender dysphoria? "crossdress"  
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Wearing Trina Turk.
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Wanda Zambella, mid-20th Century professional femulator

I’m so tired, I’m feeling so upset

All day and all of the night, I get e-mails from Google Alerts, which monitors "the web for interesting new content" on topics I want to know about. "crossdress news" About 95% of the alerts I receive are on the topic "transgender." Each e-mail alert typically contains one to a half dozen new web content about "transgender." I typically receive one transgender alert every hour or so, therefore, on an average day, I may receive 24 to 144 new transgender web contents. It didn"t used to be that way. Two or three years ago, there were only a handful of transgender alerts each day. That was before Caitlyn and before the right wing and/or "Christian" bathroom fetishists went apeshit about transpeople peeing in the same pots where they pee.   Everyday I read stories about some judge or attorney general ruling against laws and policies that favor transpeople or politicians advocating the same. And then there are the religious folks who preach against us never taking under consideration what Jesus would do. I am very tired of reading bad news that makes me sad and upset. Even the good news make me sad because often it is only temporary and will soon be short-circuited by the haters. When will it end?
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(Stop the world, I want to get off.)
Source: Madeleine
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Falete femulates Sara Montiel on Spain"s version of Your Face Sounds Familiar.