Cures for Gender Dysphoria

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By Susan King, Transitioning into Tomorrow Five things I do when my gender dysphoria kicks in and I am locked in the closet. "crossdressing" 1. Take some time to pamper myself like take a bubble bath, shave my body hair, watch TV while giving myself a manicure "travesti" 2. Create a pretty outfit on Polyvore. 3. Build a nice board on Pinterest. 4. Read a book. I am currently reading books with transgender or woman lead characters. I love SF books, so I am trying authors of SF books with female leads. I have tried fiction books with a transgender theme. But I have not found the right author. 5. Snuggle under a nice soft blanket and watch a comedy with a female lead. I get some popcorn and a diet soda (water now) and enjoy. "crossdresser"
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These five things do not always work. But I will  try one of them when I am stuck in the closet. How do you handle your gender dysphoria? "crossdress"  
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Wearing Trina Turk.
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Wanda Zambella, mid-20th Century professional femulator

Cures for Gender Dysphoria

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By Susan King, Transitioning into Tomorrow Five things I do when my gender dysphoria kicks in and I am locked in the closet. "crossdressing" 1. Take some time to pamper myself like take a bubble bath, shave my body hair, watch TV while giving myself a manicure "travesti" 2. Create a pretty outfit on Polyvore. 3. Build a nice board on Pinterest. 4. Read a book. I am currently reading books with transgender or woman lead characters. I love SF books, so I am trying authors of SF books with female leads. I have tried fiction books with a transgender theme. But I have not found the right author. 5. Snuggle under a nice soft blanket and watch a comedy with a female lead. I get some popcorn and a diet soda (water now) and enjoy. "crossdresser"
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These five things do not always work. But I will  try one of them when I am stuck in the closet. How do you handle your gender dysphoria? "crossdress"  
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Wearing Trina Turk.
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Wanda Zambella, mid-20th Century professional femulator

I’m so tired, I’m feeling so upset

All day and all of the night, I get e-mails from Google Alerts, which monitors "the web for interesting new content" on topics I want to know about. "crossdress news" About 95% of the alerts I receive are on the topic "transgender." Each e-mail alert typically contains one to a half dozen new web content about "transgender." I typically receive one transgender alert every hour or so, therefore, on an average day, I may receive 24 to 144 new transgender web contents. It didn"t used to be that way. Two or three years ago, there were only a handful of transgender alerts each day. That was before Caitlyn and before the right wing and/or "Christian" bathroom fetishists went apeshit about transpeople peeing in the same pots where they pee.   Everyday I read stories about some judge or attorney general ruling against laws and policies that favor transpeople or politicians advocating the same. And then there are the religious folks who preach against us never taking under consideration what Jesus would do. I am very tired of reading bad news that makes me sad and upset. Even the good news make me sad because often it is only temporary and will soon be short-circuited by the haters. When will it end?
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(Stop the world, I want to get off.)
Source: Madeleine
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Falete femulates Sara Montiel on Spain"s version of Your Face Sounds Familiar.

A Fix

I seldom test "my" links ("my art," "my photos," etc.) listed in the left sidebar of this blog. Lo and behold, today I wanted to view "my Pinterests" and the link did not work. I tested "my" other links and they did not work either! "My" links and the "send me e-mail" link were all contained within one Blogger gadget and they all used to work in a previous time. Something in Blogger must have changed. I guessed correctly that the e-mail Javascript no longer got along with "my" html links, so I separated them. The e-mail Javascript is now in one gadget and the html links in another gadget.
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  Now everything works again. Go figure!  
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Wearing Nicholas Deep.
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Vincent Beier, male model (Visit Juan"s NewMaleFashion for more Vincent Beier images.)

Crossdresser fiction how my best friend became my girlfriend

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Tommy and I had been best friends since as long as I could remember. We kinda fit to-
get her really well. I was the big guy, the heavy, and he was my buddy who was pretty
smart. It meant I could keep him out of trouble from some of the bullies, and he could
help me out on my homework and junk We must have been about 16, it was the
summer of 1999, and we were out hiking in the woods.

I remember the day being particularly warm, real nice for walking the woods, but the
humidity was growing, and with it, came a storm. Tommy was having a hard time keep-
ing up with me,just like he normally did, but that day maybe a little more was off than I
realised. We couldn’t stay exposed for long in the rain, and as lightning flashed a
couple of times in the air. As luck would have it, I spied a cab in just on the other edge
of a clearing, and knew that was our only hope to stay dry and safe. Tommy wasn’t
completely ok with going for it, but wasn’t content waiting in the storm for it to pass,
so we set off.

The door creaked open as we secluded ourselves inside. The place actually seemed
relatively lived in. There were the ashes of a recent fire in the chimney, though there
wasn’t any signs of anybody being around as of that day. It was a nice enough place to
relax and wait out the storm. There was a pack of cards in a cupboard that gave us
some entertainment, and we just spent the afternoon quite pleasantly enjoying our
time out there.

When the truck pulled up outside, that was all about to change. I heard the diesel
engine as it heaved its way up the hill, before the door slammed and someone fiddled
with keys outside. They were perplexed to find it open. It didn’t occur to me that they
might be upset at our presence, but they really were. This redneck guy, a real Un-
abomber type, loomed tall over even myself, holding a rifle and just kept shouting. I
stood in between him and Tommy, and I could tell he was scared, and tried to get to
the bottom of the situation.

“I’m sorry, I was trying to wait out the storm, it’s my fault really,” I explained, which
made the guy back off a little.

“What? You a couple queers?” he asked, clearly disdainful. We laughed and said no, we
were just hiking and needed somewhere to wait out the storm. He didn’t seem to be-
lieve that, and on the way out, as we ran past him, he muttered some words under his
breath. At first I thought he was cursing, but not in the way that it ultimately turned out.
For whatever reason, he chose Tommy that day, and what he did changed both our
lives forever.


Miss Bebot (Beyond Miss Eng’g)

In the past, Femulate "sissy" has noted the Miss Eng"g pageant at the College of Engineering, University of Philippines-Diliman, which many acclaim as one of the best womanless "travesti"contests in existence. It turns out that the Miss Eng"g pageant is just the tip of the iceberg; the Philippines is a hotbed of womanless pageantry.
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The word "bebot" is Filipino slang for "pretty woman," similar to how the word "babe" "crossdressing Tips" is slang in many English-speaking countries. "Bebot" is also used as the name of a variety of womanless beauty pageants, for example, "crossdresser" "Miss Bebot," "Ms. Bebot, "Mr. Bebot," etc. These contests are held throughout the Philippines... in grade schools, high schools, colleges, civic groups and beyond. For example, at one Filipino hospital"s Christmas party, the male "crossdressing" nurses competed in a Miss Bebot Contest (photo above). On Pinterest, Kelly Crossita has a collection of photos from various Bebot pageants. I think you will enjoy the "TIPS" view.
Source: Metrostyle
 
Miss Bebot

Uplifting Experience

By Paula Gaikowski, Femulate Contributing Editor September is here in New England ladies… clear crisp days, and "sissy" warm cozy sweaters; pull the pantyhose out of the draw, it’s time to show our true colors. As cisgender women "transgender" can easily get away with bare shoulders and sleeveless tops this ol’ gal thrives on fall and winter fashions that allows for foundation garments and pantyhose to cover the effects of testosterone poisoning.
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Awhile back Stana and I had a discussion about using tape to pull back your eyelids to give a more youthful and feminine appearance. I have tried a number of methods, crossdress News  over the years and have come up with a simple and effective method to arch ones eyebrows and lessen wrinkles.
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Drag performers have used variations of this over the years, however, their techniques are usually more complex and intricate. I’ve come up with a quick and easy process that is incorporated into my "Travesti" makeup routine and adds only a minute or two to the process. And it is comfortable and holds for hours. You can see the difference in the accompanying "crossdressing" photo where one side is tape free and the other side is taped and my eye is wide open. The first step and key was finding a tape that held in place for several hours and doesn’t damage the skin. After years of research by Femulate’s team of scientists (well actually just me) :Crossdresser", I have found Nexcare works great and you can buy it at any leading drug store. DO NOT tape unless you use Nexcare because other brands will not hold and you will be disappointed. Next, wash your face well; remove all oil and lotion from your forehead. Finding where exactly to put the tape will take a little work. Arch your eyebrows and hold them in place with your fingertips and find the attachment point where the tape will work best (you may have to experiment to find the best point). Cut four 3 to 4 inch pieces of tape. Put one on the sweet spot, arch your brow and tape it back. As you hold that arch, use a second piece of tape to run alongside the first tape to help anchor in place. Refer to the photo below. Repeat this for the other brow and there it is! Now complete the transformation into your true self and then go forward and experience one of the most wonderful gifts there is: embracing the world as a woman.
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The left image represents how the tape actually appears. The right image was manipulated so you can clearly see how Paula positioned the tapes.
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Winner of a Relay for Life womanless beauty pageant.

Uplifting Experience

By Paula Gaikowski, Femulate Contributing Editor September is here in New England ladies… clear crisp days, and "sissy" warm cozy sweaters; pull the pantyhose out of the draw, it’s time to show our true colors. As cisgender women "transgender" can easily get away with bare shoulders and sleeveless tops this ol’ gal thrives on fall and winter fashions that allows for foundation garments and pantyhose to cover the effects of testosterone poisoning.
transgender
Awhile back Stana and I had a discussion about using tape to pull back your eyelids to give a more youthful and feminine appearance. I have tried a number of methods, crossdress News  over the years and have come up with a simple and effective method to arch ones eyebrows and lessen wrinkles.
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Drag performers have used variations of this over the years, however, their techniques are usually more complex and intricate. I’ve come up with a quick and easy process that is incorporated into my "Travesti" makeup routine and adds only a minute or two to the process. And it is comfortable and holds for hours. You can see the difference in the accompanying "crossdressing" photo where one side is tape free and the other side is taped and my eye is wide open. The first step and key was finding a tape that held in place for several hours and doesn’t damage the skin. After years of research by Femulate’s team of scientists (well actually just me) :Crossdresser", I have found Nexcare works great and you can buy it at any leading drug store. DO NOT tape unless you use Nexcare because other brands will not hold and you will be disappointed. Next, wash your face well; remove all oil and lotion from your forehead. Finding where exactly to put the tape will take a little work. Arch your eyebrows and hold them in place with your fingertips and find the attachment point where the tape will work best (you may have to experiment to find the best point). Cut four 3 to 4 inch pieces of tape. Put one on the sweet spot, arch your brow and tape it back. As you hold that arch, use a second piece of tape to run alongside the first tape to help anchor in place. Refer to the photo below. Repeat this for the other brow and there it is! Now complete the transformation into your true self and then go forward and experience one of the most wonderful gifts there is: embracing the world as a woman.
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The left image represents how the tape actually appears. The right image was manipulated so you can clearly see how Paula positioned the tapes.
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Winner of a Relay for Life womanless beauty pageant.

Look Ma, No Bra!

How to Keep Your Bra From Showing Under a Sleeveless Top

By Nicole Akhtarzad for Who What Wear; Adapted for Femulate.org
 
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Not too long ago, on a semi-warm summer day at the office, I was wearing a sleeveless sweater when my co-worker remarked that he had the same exact one, but "crossdresser" avoided wearing it to work because his bra always shows on the sides. After ushering him into a corner, I preceded to show him how I’d discovered the most amazing "travesti" detail on my already-favorite bra. What was it? A tiny easy-to-miss hook on the back of the straps that converts it into a racerback style. Now, let me backtrack for a moment and mention that I’m really not into racerback bras. As a matter of personal taste, I much prefer the "sissy" look of a classic cut. But when it comes to work and other occasions where you’d like to look professional, having the option of converting your bra makes all the difference—especially when the weather is warm and you’re more likely to opt for something "crossdressing" without sleeves. Hence, why I love mine so much. Whenever I need to, "crossdress" I just hook the back. It not only keeps the straps from showing, but the lace on the sides stops peeping out through the armholes too.
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If you prefer to stick with the bras you have, this clip "NEWS" will do the trick as well!
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Look Ma, No Bra!

How to Keep Your Bra From Showing Under a Sleeveless Top

By Nicole Akhtarzad for Who What Wear; Adapted for Femulate.org
 
crossdresser
Not too long ago, on a semi-warm summer day at the office, I was wearing a sleeveless sweater when my co-worker remarked that he had the same exact one, but "crossdresser" avoided wearing it to work because his bra always shows on the sides. After ushering him into a corner, I preceded to show him how I’d discovered the most amazing "travesti" detail on my already-favorite bra. What was it? A tiny easy-to-miss hook on the back of the straps that converts it into a racerback style. Now, let me backtrack for a moment and mention that I’m really not into racerback bras. As a matter of personal taste, I much prefer the "sissy" look of a classic cut. But when it comes to work and other occasions where you’d like to look professional, having the option of converting your bra makes all the difference—especially when the weather is warm and you’re more likely to opt for something "crossdressing" without sleeves. Hence, why I love mine so much. Whenever I need to, "crossdress" I just hook the back. It not only keeps the straps from showing, but the lace on the sides stops peeping out through the armholes too.
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If you prefer to stick with the bras you have, this clip "NEWS" will do the trick as well!
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